Thursday, January 8, 2009

art of phrasing ur words

XX asked me if i would like to have lunch with YZD and as a matter of fact, i can't and thus i said sorry i can't. then a few minutes later someone (JJ) came up to me and ask if i will be going to the lunch and the way JJ put it makes me want to laugh. here is the conversation:

JJ: Esther are you going for the lunch?
Est: no.
JJ: but YZD ask (call u-in mandarin) you go leh.
Est (thinks i am too sensitive): wow... she call me, i must go meh? i got plans lar.
JJ: then i think i don't want to go too.
Est: orh... up to you lor. its a free country. anyway you are YZD favourite now. YZD wants to groom u.
(converstation continue... just another hi-bye, fyi sort of talk. nothing deep)

haha... i think i am really seriously considering the purpose of joining this Tmasterclub thing. Yes to public speaking but no to the true art of speaking? hehee... people that i seems to know can talk well in public but the choice of words that they use is TOTALLY horrifying. misunderstanding and petty shit araise because of the wrong use of words. =( why don't people realise it? or maybe its just here at my club? =_=??

the other clubs that i been to (only 3 others actually... =P) have a positive, vibrate vibe to it but ours is dead serious and silence is GOLD! that is so ironic isn't it? anyway... i wish more people will join the club and i can be just a member that come and listen for entertainment. no more weird posting!! i love my life as it is.... afterall i think i have figure out there are pebbles and stones more worthy of my pursuing than tiny grains of sand that can hardly fill my jar. no?

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